Dominance games

I'll tell you a few real-life stories about dominance, or rather about playing at dominance that went beyond the game or didn't go as planned.

Dominance when a girl asked me to be a bit of a dom. And so, a few days later, I decided to surprise my girlfriend. Coming out of the bathroom, I approached her while she was sitting on the couch, threw my leg over her, dropped my towel, presented my already erect cock to her face, and taking her head, pulled her towards me, but she resisted with her hands.

Then I slapped her lightly on the back of the head and said it would be better not to argue with me right now, precisely right now, and squeezed the hair on

her head tightly. She opened her mouth and my cock started sliding over her lips, she was jerking it off meanwhile, but I tried to push my cock further in, making her gag. Then I flipped her over doggy style and entered her ass.

So here's an example of how fantasies in your head are always smooth and your sexual partner in your fantasies does as you think, but in reality, it's not like that. Maybe the taste isn't right, the smell isn't the same, and you might experience discomfort and even pain. By the way, I think this is precisely what served as the reason for our breakup.

The next case is when I opened up to my girlfriend, telling her that I dream of a dominant female and that I like to please a girl and I would like to play and submit to her. Although the game itself is just an imitation of dominance, she unexpectedly agreed and said I needed to be tied up by my hands and feet. I took a clothesline, cut it into four pieces, and firmly tied one end of each to the bedposts, bringing the other ends to the surface.

Then I lay down, anticipating that she would now tie me up and I would lose any ability to resist. And so it happened, I was tightly tied and couldn't untie myself, but what happened next I couldn't have predicted, and I think you couldn't either. She started giving me a blowjob, thereby shattering all my plans and dominance fantasies. I thought she would sit on my face and then fuck me in the Amazon position and then back on my face and maybe even (though I hadn't tried it then) a golden shower. But here was a blowjob. I started cursing and explaining to her that she was dominating wrong, but she didn't listen to me at all and just continued, AND NOTICE, truly dominating me and doing exactly what she wanted, not me. That is dominance! That is, when one person enjoys it and the other's enjoyment is not necessary. So, that time I came, of course, but I had the feeling that she really had me, I even didn't talk to her for a while.

In this case, she got off really well, she said it was something else, when a helpless guy is practically moaning from both pleasure and displeasure at the same time.

I refused her quite coldly, and right after our conversation, I received a recording of me performing cunnilingus on her with the caption – maybe send it to someone?.

A cold sweat broke out on me, and that's when I realized this was real blackmail, exactly the kind I had once asked her for, but now I didn't want this blackmail, but it was too late to argue, I had already offended her. She wasn't answering her phone, and I understood she could send that recording to someone any minute. I couldn't take it, drove to her place, and already at her door, knocking and asking her to forgive me, that I'm an insensitive jerk and that I actually wanted to provoke her emotions, and of course I want her back, and of course I missed her, and of course there's no one better than her, and I haven't fucked anyone but her since our breakup, and that I really want her back. She listened to me through the door, occasionally murmuring something, and then finally opened the door, and we melted into a hot kiss, and we had amazing sex, and we started dating again and became a couple.

However, I realized then that I didn't exactly love her anymore, I even felt a bit disgusted with her, but she had that damned recording, and I was really being blackmailed. Then I endured a lot of humiliation from her, as she also realized she really had power over me. It all ended when, not without my effort, of course, she lost interest in me and, right in front of my eyes, again (for the second time) deleted the recording and said I was free, that she had found true love, and apologizing to me, promised there was no copy. However, I'm still not sure about that.

So these were stories of real dominance in life, and it's not exactly what I wanted, but they certainly added emotions and frayed my nerves.